On line dating is becoming the ordinary way to try to meet your ideal partner. We have a few tips that you should bear in mind.
Don’t chase them via email.
Block anyone who annoys you instantly.
Post the best photo you can find.
Don’t answer to instant messages with clever opening lines.
Always answer to emails within 3 days of receipt.
Never provide your real email or phone details.
Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn.
Make sure your login name is stunning as well as enigmatic.
Do not login for hours on end. Small, rapid visits are best.
Do not assume the person you are talking to is destitute or sad.
Never ever answer to emails on weekends. Wait until a weekday.
Never state how excellent your sexual performance is in your profile.
If you don’t want to date married men, spell it out in your profile.
A man who doesn’t answer to your email within 3 days should be ignored.
Make sure your humour levels come across in text.
Do not chat to hundreds of men/women at once. The delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.
Don’t even reckon about misrepresenting your size or description. If you are 250 pounds it’s unlikely you are size zero.
Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results
When building your online profile
When putting together your online dating profile, these are a few handy hints and tips.
Women get more approaches/hits if they are smiling full on to the camera.
Men get more hits if they are side on and not looking directly at the camera, if women do this they are construed as temperamental.
Both men and women get more hits if they show off a small chest. (If you are a man with moobs this is not recommended.)
The picture has to be recent. Yes you may have looked really excellent 10 years ago, but the person talking to you will want to go out with you then, not you now.
If you are overweight by 10-20 pounds don’t make a huge deal about it. If you weigh 250-300 pounds let your potential dates know to save disappointment.
Do NOT make your profile (or your username) overly sexual, this can place people off.
Do NOT talk about previous failed relationships.
Do NOT lie about whatever thing. Don’t pretend to be a millionaire to attract people
Do NOT talk about your family tree (overbearing mother or nightmare siblings)
Be clear on what you want, (for example I want: a flaxen petite lady between the ages of 25-35; a professional man 30-45)
Keep it small, but open finished so any interested date will have an opportunity to question questions
Change your opening text/profile picture every 10-14 days to keep it fresh.
Write how you would talk, it’s not a job application, keep it casual and informal.
Make sure your spelling is right and don’t used text speak ie 4u, 2 OMG, WLTM etc.
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